Figuring out a diet for yourself is tough stuff. There’s a lot of information out there, and guess what? It ALL CONFLICTS!
You may recall that I have recently been trying out the paleo diet, as there are a lot of claims out there about how awesome it is and how clear your skin gets when you’re on it. At first, I was into it. The benefits that I saw in the first month or so were these:
- My skin did look pretty awesome
- I knew exactly what to buy at the grocery store, in what proportions, and what to cook every night. There was a system, and it worked.
- Frankly, it was delicious
- I felt pretty good, although I wouldn’t say “miraculous”
But the Boredom Set In
Buuuut…. then I started getting reeeally bored of it. Remember this article? I wrote about how I went on a river rafting trip and suddenly began binge eating and couldn’t seem to stop myself.
At the time, wondered what was going on, but I’ve realized since that I was simply craving more variety. I was so frickin bored with my meals that I began to rebel against myself. In fact, it actually made me really sad, because despite how yummy I knew my meals were, I began getting really aggravated about cooking. I didn’t look forward to dinner at all.
But it wasn’t only that. I started to not feel great – lacking energy and being cranky often. The way paleo people talk about bounding with energy – well, that just wasn’t me.
I’m not hating on paleo. I agree with the principles of it, such as its focus on whole, natural, quality foods. And I strongly believe that animal foods are important in a diet, and so are plenty of good fats – but I disagree with the rigidity of “labels”. And I don’t mean that only about paleo, I mean it about any food label – vegan, raw foodie, atkins dieters, fruitarian, meatarian, pesco-lacto-ovo this or that.
It puts you into a box, and makes you feel guilty when the prescribed food list doesn’t work for you precisely as they say it should, or if you eat non-prescribed foods too often. And if you get really into a community based around a diet label, it can be really hard to change if things aren’t going well.
It’s tough though, because in the blogging world, and in life, labels do make a long story short. Instead of telling you a long list of things that I eat, it’s a lot easier to just say that I eat “paleo”. But I’ve recently started eating a lot more (non-gluten) grains, fruits, beans, and general carbs again, and cutting back a bit on some of the fat (but not all of it). And that’s not reeeally “paleo”.
I guess you could say it’s more like “Weston A. Price”…. but…. …. what’s this post about again? Oh yeah…. shunning labels.
Seasonal Eating May Be The Answer
To be honest, I just think eating too paleo was a bit heavy for the summer months, and maybe it will jive better with me in the winter when you are craving dense things to keep you warm. Seasonal eating is important, and now did not feel like the right time. I needed something lighter.
Anyway, my skin is just fine since I started eating more carbs, and since I feel better physically, I’m just gonna stick with it. The facts are – different people need carbs, proteins, and fats in different ratios based on their bodies, metabolisms, and environment. That is something you just need to figure out for yourself – no label or diet can really tell you that.
On a related note – some of you may have noticed that I’ve put a “Books” page up at the top there on the menu bar, and am now selling my ebook about how you can achieve beautiful skin with food. This is a collection of everything I’ve learned about eating for the skin through experience, my holistic nutrition program, research, and opinion.
In my book, I have not chosen to go with a concrete “label”. What I recommend has some paleo principles, but it’s not exactly that. I take the mystery out of food, explain the pros and cons of each food group, and I leave you completely enlightened about what and how to eat for great skin. Yet it is not rigid, and there is still room to maneuver and make up a diet that works for you personally (without depriving you of all your favourite foods).
I also address such burning questions and curiosities as:
- How can I figure out what my food allergies are without paying for an allergy test?
- Is all dairy bad? What makes kefir okay, but normal milk bad?
- What can I eat when I go out to restaurants?
- How do I deal with unsupportive people?
- How can I make healthy eating more convenient?
- How can I afford to eat healthy food? What do I do if I don’t have a health food store near me?
- Do I have to eat all my food organic?
Anyway, I still don’t have the internet (and I do have a full time job), so it’s been a bit tough to find the time to tell you all about the book in detail. But I will eventually. Believe me though – it’s fabulous, and by the time you have soaked all this info up and put it into action – you will look and feel fabulous too.
As a celebration of me finally releasing it, I’m putting it on sale for $19 for three days only – that’s like 35% off!! Don’t miss it!




30 Responses
When I first “went primal” I loved it. I felt like I was on top of the world. Within a few short months I hated it. It was hard because I felt guilty every time I ate something that was not paleo.
I’ve been living this way for 16 months and have learned so much.
I like the label of “primal LIFESTYLE.” For diet I think about real, wholesome food. Food that makes ME feel awesome – not the next person. I tell people to eat what they want. But I must ask… do you want to feel awesome? Then consider avoiding all grains, legumes and dairy for 30 days. Then add back in certain foods and notice how you feel. Decide what is best for YOU.
Aside from diet… get quality sleep, PLAY, be social, relax, get SUNLIGHT, manage stress, meditate, live in the moment, simplify, etc.
Take a look at your own life and make changes that you believe in.
If there is one word to sum up how to live an amazing life it would be to…
EXPERIMENT!
Yep 🙂 !
thanks for the advice Tracy! Being too obsessive over diet can make me feel a little trapped sometimes and a guess (like you) that is why some random days when I’m away from home or at a party I may eat a little too much junk food and sugary drinks etc… not because I REALLY love these “bad” foods but because I feel like I’m rebelling against my “diet” which has made me feel restricted and in a way un-normal. I suppose its important to eat in a way that is good for your mind and body.
Definitely… we all have to come to a balance in our lives that feels okay… one day we will get there! 🙂
I think Primal with a few “personal adjustments” is the best diet.
Also congrats on your E-book Tracy! You deserve every cent for spreading the Gospel of Health. 🙂
Thanks Sampson! And thank YOU for being my most trusty supporter!
I agree with sampson. I am playing around with my primal diet (80% primal, 20% not primal but based off your ethnic/ancestral background and what you can tolerate). Also tracy, I heard that there is usually a 3-6 week period that your brain and body need to re-adjust to running off of fats as your primary fuel source and not carbs, possibly that is what happened to you. Your brain got cranky because you shut off its usual energy source (carbs), dunno just speculation. I think everyone should give primal a 3 month shot, to rebuild the metabolism, then add whatever you want and judge accordingly.
Maybe! That could have been what happened. But because I found it too restrictive and boring, I don’t think I’ll go back to it completely! :/
I definitely agree with this post. I tried paleo for a while and felt absolutely awful. Because I’m already underweight, I drasticly lost so much more weight and literally had no energy. My body struggled just to get me up the stairs! I now eat non-gluten grains 2 or 3 times a day and I now have my energy back! So although I agree that paleo could work very well for some people it doesn’t always work for everyone and I will continue eating grains!
I find it so frustrating that there is always someone out there ready to tell you that what your eating is still not healthy
Great post Tracy!
Also….. I swore blind that I wasn’t going to buy any more acne e-books but I absolutely love your website so will definitely be buying it 🙂
Good for you Amy! I’m glad you figured out what worked for you 🙂
And if you do buy my book, I really appreciate your trust and business! ! Much love! xoxo
From everything I have learned I believe fruits and veggies including tubers are still better sources of carbs than even non-gluten grains so being “paleo/primal” doesn’t even mean low carb necessarily because you can eat starchy vegetables. But if you dig grains, then by all means. I’m in limbo between primal and Weston A Price. Going into the cold and hockey season, primal should pay off haha.
This is all really interesting info……..the only “grain” I eat is quinoa, and I’ve been told that it’s actually not really a grain. ?? I have not looked into the paleo or primal diets that much, but how do people feel about continuing to eat quinoa? I admit that if I had to cut this out I would feel seriously deprived. I feel like it is the one true food joy that I have left!
If you enjoy quinoa, and more importantly it vibes with YOUR biochemistry I say go for it. Everyone can benefit though from eliminating sugar, processed carbs, trans fats and vegetable oils. More specifically with regards to grains, legumes, and animal products I believe everyone can benefit from eliminating gluten grains, soy beans, and conventionally raised animal products. Those seem to be the 3 concrete facts I have found with addition to the obvious three of sugar, processed carbs and trans fat.
I agree…..thanks Tyler! I have long ago cut out gluten, dairy, soy, sugar and processed foods….it just pains me to think about cutting out quinoa! 😉
Nah, I think what Tyler says is correct…. and quinoa is fine! I’d suggest soaking it for at least a couple hours though before you cook it to get all the sapponins off…. you can tell after it’s been soaking for a little while, that it gets all sudsy and soapy and yeah… just soak all that stuff out and rinse it good, and I think quinoa is great!!
I don’t think it is the diet “label” that is so frustrating with the world of nutrition. The real problem with the world of nutrition and why it is so damn confusing/conflicting is that people don’t realize that we are all highly individualized and that humans can adapt to eating just about anything it seems. The real problem then lies in the dogmatic approach to diets and unnecessarily trying to convert others to your “label” because it worked for you (key word). People find what works for them and outwardly praise it as being superior to any thing else and that is when people get sensitive and feel obligated to defend their personal eating habits resulting in diet debate galore. We all have “labels” essentially that is just a fact of life and that doesn’t have to be a bad thing if that “label” is working for you and your goals are being achieved in promoting the best health possible. Labels are not bad if they work for you, dogmas are bad regardless. There are many paths to “health” whatever that looks like, unfortunate though that there isn’t a one size fits all, but in reality that is the beauty of the human condition. I rest my case
I agree Tyler… I probably did use the wrong words there. It isn’t the label, it is the dogma that I dislike!
You said it all . I think “diets” have made people in this nation even more confused and unhealthy. We all should eat the natural healthy foods that our good God put on this Earth for us. i have a friend that battles with her weight and all she worries is about sticking to her ‘diet’. Which is alot of processed, sugarfree crap. I feel so bad she’s caught up in the whole idea and have tried to explain it to her.
Hi Jini! Yes… people are very misguided when it comes to typical ‘diet fads’…. “sugar free” or “fat free” labels don’t make for healthy food when they are heavily processed and full of chemicals! I hope you friend finds her way to natural foods soon 🙂
I just bought your book… DAMN! I really wanted to resist!:) But I am really looking forward to it. Btw: Both the payment and download were superfast. PS: Great article, as always.
Hahah… I’m sorry? Seriously though, I really appreciate you taking a chance and buying the book! I know you’ll enjoy it and learn a lot! 🙂 Much love!! xoxo
Hi, Tracy. Thank you for all the great info and a place to find support! I’ve had really bad acne for about12 yrs and so tired of it. My chiropractor suggested an igG test and guess what? Yep, 27 food sensitivities! I was shocked. I’ve always been a healthy person, excersied, ate right. It’s been 2 months now on a restricted diet and my skin is getting clearer! I also took yours and my moms suggestion and went to a holistic doctor this week. wow, that was an eye opener! I;m so excited to find out that my body is going to be healed and healthy again. All this time I didn;t know that what was wrong on the indside was the cause of the pimples. I ‘m having a hard time not having my cheese, pizza, and all the veggies. Sometimes i think i can’t take it anymore, but i look in the mirror and say yes! It’s amazing how much more alive I feel not having all the yeast and dairy in me,even though i miss it. I agree that you shouldn;t put labels on diets. It should just be about eating the right foods for your body and being as healthy as you can be. Thank you, for sharing and caring. You rock, girl!
The road to recovery can definitely be tough…. and not eating all this food you crave can be REALLY hard! But to be honest… once you’ve cut out your allergies for quite a while, healed your digestive tract, and continue to eat and live right most of the time, you will be able to eat the foods you were once sensitive to. I mean some things are just not good for anyone (ie pasteurized dairy, and wheat gluten), so I mean… you shouldn’t eat pizza all the time, but … I would for a treat occasionally, and I mean, I eat little bits of cheese here and there with meals and I will have a sandwich once in a while too. And the really good is that the things that I was sensitive to while clearing my acne that are healthy (a couple of examples from me were garlic and eggs), and now I eat those fairly frequently with no problems! 🙂 So don’t worry!
Thanks, Tracy. It’s so weird that the veggies, fruits and grain that I thought were good for me are a problem. It’s good to know that maybe someday I will once again have scrambled eggs and toast for breakfast. It’s worth it. A new journey for a healthier me! I think now i will look at food choices in a whole new light. Love ya, my new friend.
I just clicked on a link and clicked on a link and clicked on a link, and somehow ended up here. 🙂 I’ve followed the Primal Blueprint off & on for a while, as well as low carb in general, and I was vegetarian for years prior to that, so I sometimes struggle with what I feel is right for me.
Anyway, I’m curious what did you find too heavy for summer, and what did you add back into your diet to make it lighter that wasn’t primal/paleo?
I started eating more non-gluten grains and beans in replacement of some of the meat (although I only eat a small portion of meat with each meal), and I also started eating more fruit again. I had also been in the habit of cooking most of my meals, and I was craving raw vegetables…. I think lots of fresh vegetables and fruit are better for summer and lots of cooked soups and steamed veg and meats and fats are better for winter.
Hi Tracy, I did ImuPro100(IgG) test to check out my allergies. From 90 foods I’m allergic to 77! And there are only 13 left (beef, lamb, tuna, pollock, perch, beetroot, banana, apple, apricot, pumpkin seeds, cinnamon, nutmeg, soy), I’m so depressed. I don’t think it will be possible to cut out all 77 foods and eat only those 13 even for month… Maybe I should do ImuPro300 to find more foods I’m NOT allergic to? I really don’t know what to do now:(
Wow, really? How does ImuPro work…. does it rank your allergens in any way? I mean, does it tell you whether some things are more reactive for you, and some less reactive? If so, I would suggest only cutting out those things that rank really reactive and see how you go. I imagine that would be able to take some of the allergic load off for a while and help you to get better without cutting out EVERYTHING. If not… the thing with allergens is that you really only need to cut them out for 6 weeks, and if you heal your digestive tract and improve your health in that time, you should be able to eat a lot of them again. Allergens are not ‘for life’ like some suggest. I write a lot about this in my new ebook, actually. Although I realize that only eating 13 food for six weeks would be a mega challenge. Good luck my dear friend xoxoxo
I really feel for you. Here i thought my 27 allergies were bad. You got me beat. I’m having a holistic doctor help me, he is givimg me supplements to help heal my body. You should reallly consider going to a doctor like him.It won’t be forever, just focus on the fact that your body needs time to start healing. It will be ok. you can do it!