I was thinking about this the other day:
Most of us make diet changes in the most painful way possible.
Now, I realize that when you are changing your diet for a specific purpose like getting rid of your acne, you want to see that result as soon as you possible can. So the reasonable thing to do is jump head on in without looking back, slash foods out of your diet with no abandon, and have a 100% new diet by the next day.
For some personalities, this actually works really well. And that’s fine.
But I think for most people it’s pretty traumatic… I mean, sure, it might be okay if you’re doing a short diet challenge or something, but if you are changing your diet 100% overnight with the intention of it being a permanent change, the fast route is often fraught with failure.
I would also like to mention that most of the time in this situation, the focus is heavily on what you aren’t allowed to eat anymore vs what you are. So not only is a full 180 diet change stressful enough as it is, it makes it worse when you are feeling deprived and sad that your favourite foods are now completely off limits FOREVER AHHHHH
Okay, so what I would like to propose is that you take it a little slower and totally switch the focus of your changes. Instead of starting by slashing foods you can’t eat, start by finding and researching nutrient dense foods and meals that fit the description of how you want your diet to end up, and then begin incorporating those.
Each week, find a few foods or meals that you like, figure out where to buy the ingredients, and make them. Keep doing this, week after week – keep adding those foods in.
The beauty is that after a while, you just simply don’t have any room left in your diet for the bad stuff! With each healthy food you add into your regular routine, you are displacing something not as healthy.
Eventually the majority of your diet will be awesome and there was no pain or mourning involved. Woohoo.
For example, when I was in Australia this past winter, I came across this list of nutrient dense foods to keep your guts healthy from a very smart woman named Pat at her ‘Heal Thyself‘ network:
Nutrient Dense Foods:
- Homemade Bone Broth – every. single. day. 1 cup (MANY nutrients needed for detox, plus minerals)
- Homemade Milk Kefir – every. single. day. 1 cup (gradually work up) (B vits, enzymes, most probiotics in proper ph)
- Homemade Kombucha – every. single. day. 1 cup (start with an ounce, increase by 1 ounce a week.)
- Green Smoothie – every. single. day. day 2 cups (any frozen fruit plus any dark leafy greens, rotate produce)
- Liver – one ounce, only three times a week. (B-vits essential for detox)
- Lentils or Beans – 1 cup per day. (folate, molybdenum)
- Coconut Oil – 1 Tbls every. single. day. (medium chain fatty acids, kills candida in the large intestine)
- Fermented Cod Liver Oil – every. single day. (most expensive item) (vit A, D, K, EFAs)
- Bubbies (or homemade) Sauerkraut – 1 Tbls. every. single. day. (or other raw, fermented food) (probiotics)
- Brazil nuts – 1 ONLY, every. single. day. (selenium)
- Celtic Sea Salt – a pinch in every glass of water, broth. (microminerals)
- Lemon juice – fresh squeezed, 1 tsp. in every glass of water or smoothie. (alkalizing to body ph, paradoxically)
- Raw Honey – 1 Tbls at bedtime. (helps bifidum bacteria to grow in the gut)
- Egg yolk , 1 per day. (nutrients help to detox)
- Nettle Infusion – 1 or 2 cups per day. (many vitamins and minerals and phytonutrients)
- Kelp – 1 teaspoon every day.
- Epsom salt baths – 1 cup in a tub of water 3x/week for 20 minutes.
Now, Pat’s intention with this was to tell us what you can be eating in order to get all the nutrients you need without expensive supplements. Don’t be scared though – I realize this list is a LOT of stuff to be fitting in every. single. day. and I wouldn’t expect that from you or me.
However, when I saw this list, I was very inspired to begin adding as much as these things into my regular food intake as I possibly could. And although I knew I wouldn’t be able to remember to eat every single thing on the list every single day, I still wanted to be eating them as much as I could.
So I got back into making kefir, I started making bone broth, nettle infusions, keeping up with making sauerkraut, made sure I was having my green smoothies, and I even began eating liver!
You know what I found? That simply by trying to slowly incorporate the foods on this list, a lot of other things were being displaced. My diet was getting a nutrient boost in a very positive way – no pain, no suffering, no banning anything, no missing anything – just a boost via simple displacement.
How do you make diet changes? Are you a jump in headlong kind of person, or do you think this displacement method might work a bit better for you?




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Great points Tracy. If only there was a store as prevalent as Starbucks that served exclusively healthy food at a reasonable price. I try to eat well but am often constrained by a lack of time and energy. That’s my version of the pain.
Yep, it’s true that healthy eating isn’t always the most convenient, and you do have to be motivated by something strong in order to make sure that you are doing the planning necessary to prepare your own meals. I really do wish the world made it easier for us to eat on the go.
Im sooo doing this! I need motivation because lately ive been feeling down and i know ive needed a change.
At first i cut out cottage cheese and then ranch dressing (because of the sotbean oil and syrups in it) and decided to make my own dressing!
What woukd u suggust starting off with on the list for newbies? So far i do the nuts and lemon but i wanna do more!
Hi Aj,
Green smoothies are a great place to start… try replacing your breakfast with a big smoothie. You can also add raw egg yolk to it, coconut oil, and lemon to kill a few birds.
Nettle infusion is super easy too if you can find some bulk nettles.
Making bone broth, kefir, kombucha, and sauerkraut take a bit more effort, but learning how to do them is pretty fun. Sauerkraut is probably a good one to start with.
Also, my tip for healthy salad dressings is to mix a nut butter, or tahini, with olive oil. It’s so good.
I live in walking distance to a local health store. I tried those sesame sea weed chips and they weren’t too bad!! They have kelp and wakame seaweed up at the store too. So I can always check their for health food items.
I think this method is the best way for me. I have tried changing my diet over night, only to fall back to my old ways the next day. The hardest part is getting discouraged that it won’t work in the long run. I’m sure everyone has felt that way before though. This past year my acne has flared up to it’s worst ever! It used to be on one side of my face. Now it’s on both, and some stray on random parts of my face. It is also on my back, shoulders, and chest. :/
I really want to be seen for who I am. The first thing people see is my skin. Then I notice they are looking at all my flaws, I lose whatever confidence I tried to make up, then I act like that shy person who I wish I never became. I wonder if my acne is created by emotions more so than diet.
Anyways, I’m talking too much now. haha sorry. I am just easily discouraged so I hope to have a higher success rate at changing my diet. Maybe the diet will improve my mood, and then a domino effect will happen, leaving me with a happier perspective. I’m just tired of life’s disabling obstacles… I am hoping that my manuka honey, aloe vera, and jojoba oil will help my skin heal more efficiently as I play around with my diet.
~ Cass
Thanks so much for sharing. Some times little things like this is just what someone needs. It’s nice to see it on a list. It seems to make sense this way.
Besides cycling more this summer, one of my goals includes to add a new food to my diet every week or so. Thanks for the list of nutrient dense food. Now I know what to look for besides the ingredients to the recipes you’ve already shared. Thanks Tracey!
I bought Nettle Tea bags. Does this have the same effect as the Nettle infusion?
yep, as long as it’s just dried nettle leaves, and not like “nettle flavour” or anything weird. The only difference is that the infusion sits for four or five hours to really “infuse” the nutrients out into the water, unlike tea
Hey Tracy, could you possibly show us how to make bone broth sometime when you have a chance? 🙂
Also my sauerkraut is in the process of fermentation, currently on day 3…but it’s kinda starting to smell and the water, or brine in it…isn’t so clear lol, more dirty and not like moldy stuff you were talking about that may develop. Any ideas or is this completely normal?
Hi Ali – yes, I will – I’m going to make more videos after I move into our new house on the 15th (more privacy), and that is certainly on the list
As for sauerkraut – yeah it smells. I put garlic and onion in mine this last time, and I guess that’s what it was, but it was certainly pungent… my dad made me put it outside :/. It’s never smelled that strong before! It’s always been quite easily contained in a cupboard, but not this time I guess.
Anyway… yeah it’s normal for the brine to be kinda brown. And if it’s mouldy, you’ll know it (you know… obvious white or blue mould on top, which they say is fine as long as you scrape it out), but I actually have never had mould on mine so far
Ahh good, I can’t wait for more videos. But my family can’t stand the smell either and keep complaining about it (they’re in the hall closet with the towels lol,) but I was just making sure the dirty looking water is normal!!
Thanks!
Don’t mean to hassle you again, but i’m looking into investing in some fermented cod liver oil since i’ve heard a lot recently about the amazing benefits..I found a non flavored butter oil/fermented cod liver oil on this site (http://www.greenpasture.org/public/Products/ButterCodLiverBlend/index.cfm) that was recommended on another paleo site..if you do take cod liver oil, what kind do you buy and does the one i’m looking into purchasing look like a legitimate kind?
Yes, it’s fantastic. I’m taking it now, the cinnamon flavour butter oil/cod liver oil blend. I’ll write a blog post about it for tomorrow!
Okay I lied, it’ll be on Friday
Lol, awesome 🙂
This is a really good blog post!
I’ve started to make my own coconut water kefir, and I really like it! I used the body ecology sachet, just because it’s far easier and I only plan on making 6 batches…. Apparently it’s not recommended to drink coconut water daily for a long time, so this will only last 3 weeks or so. The water is slightly high in sugar too (like 16g per 350ml) so I’m just going to drink it for a few weeks, get the benefits; reduce all sugar cravings, improve digestion, improves gut and digestive system and get great nutrient absorption.
I wouldn’t call this a diet change, but I have started to eat quite a lot of eggs recently, and I’m finally starting to gain weight! :). In addition, I’ve started to eat a few squares of 99% cocoa dark chocolate, after reading the benefits. (though again, only small amounts because cacao has two stories behind it… Although it’s a health food, I’m going to take it as a “treat”. Even though it blows green tea and berries out of the water in terms of antioxidants.)
Thank you
You should generally leave the egg yolks raw and only cook the egg whites because of the biotin issue.
Psst Tracy, do a post/video about eggs.
Good idea… blog post about eggs…. here I come..
Can’t wait! More breakfast ideas would be great too, other than a green smoothie or something with eggs. (which actually sounds limiting, although “granola” is good with nuts, seeds, fresh raspberries and coconut milk )
Something amazing happened to me today. I figured out that I don’t really mind how liver tastes. I can eat it now and enjoy it. It’s actually not that bad. I think I just had liver that was overcooked as a kid and it tasted like meat-flavored bubble gum and I was turned off for life. Then when I started actively eating it again, I got used to it and decided it’s really not that bad. I kind of like it.
hahah I hope that one day I like the taste of liver too! I have actually heard that most people don’t like it because they have only ever had it overcooked. I’m getting more liver when my I get my half cow in May, so I’ll give it a try then
i agree, by making sure you have things like bone broth and fermented foods everyday, it doesn’t leave much room to make bad diet choices.. So I guess the key is…don’t go hungry! Keep lots of healthy choices in your kitchen. and take it with you to work!
Hello Tracy! I just have one question though.
Do you still eat occasional treats? Like doughnuts, and other junks. 🙂
Thank you. Because I’m really finding it hard to give junk foods up right away. 🙁
Great question Verna!
I’ve found a ‘treat’ that is really good, but actually, depending on your view, it’s a very good health food!
It’s called “Chocolate bark”. Basically, you melt dark chocolate (I use 90% cocoa), and mix it with chopped nuts, shredded coconut and optional fruits (go for low sugar such as cranberries, or perhaps apricots if you want it ‘chewy’.). Mix it all together, pout it into a large tray and chill. Once the chocolate has set, break it up and you have more adventurous chocolate, which added benefits!
You could try to make healthier versions of junk food, by using coconut or almond flour, but honestly, I’ve never been impressed with them so I don’t bother. I’ve been eating junk food for a week last week, due to it being easter and every kitchen surface in my kitchen was filled which junk which the family had bought. (lots of wheat milk chocolate) I binged a little, but haven’t broken out, although I fell terrible, couldn’t focus or sleep properly. I mean, I still ate all my healthy meals, but the treat were and addition! (I’ve filly gained 5 pounds though which I really needed!)
That was awesome bro! 🙂 Good for you.
I feel the same way too when it comes to eating unhealthy treats: I feel guilty afterwards.
Well, that said, but I don’t break out. Maybe a pimple or two, but that’s it, and it’ll go away quickly. I love the idea of dark chocolate! It’s delicious and nutritious. I love easter treats. Especially egg-shaped chocolates and doughnuts from Krispy Kreme. 😀 Uh-oh. I’m hungry. Hahaha. 😛
haha well I can’t say I never have any junk, I don’t binge on it too often… it’s usually if I’m like… offered dessert or something every once in a long while. And… yeah the Christmas season and stuff. The temptations for junk lessen the less you eat it though.. I find I only crave junk if I eat junk!
I see. Well disciplined. Good one Tracylicious. 😉 I‘ll try to cut them out slowly. Starting with peanut butter which I love very much!
Ah peanut butter isn’t so bad… real peanut butter, I mean (not sugary commercial peanut butter). Try to find real – 100% peanut only – peanut butter made from valencia peanuts if possible, as they are the least mouldy
Hey the nettle site has a ten dollar minimum, is there another herb I should get while I’m there, or just more nettle? haha
haha, um… I’m not sure! All depends on what you need and like. Not sure what to recommend off the top of my head
any vwg alternatives to Bone broth and liver and any other non-veggy dishes/foods???
Water and spices? haha not as healthy, but can sort of recreate it