This is an excerpt from my upcoming 112 page ebook “Find Your Passion & Live Your Dreams: Guide to Creating the Fulfilling Life You’ve Always Wanted” … to be released… I don’t know, but sometime very soon!
* Update: It’s been released! Grab your copy now! *
This ebook is my first project venturing off the acne niche and I’m really excited about it. I want to help people be more than just acne free.
What I’m referring to in this passage is the fundamental thing you need to do to achieve anything in your life that you want.
It could be something simple, or something major like going after your dream job, starting your own business, going travelling overseas. Or it could be a personal goal – like changing your lifestyle in order to get rid of acne (although the ebook is not specifically about that, but all the principles can be applied to that situation). It could be anything that you desire.
The key in all cases is action.
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If you want to succeed at living the life of your dreams, you must TAKE ACTION.
Really that’s pretty much all there is to it. It’s what it all boils down to.
Visualization and goal setting is for one purpose only: so that you will take action. ANY action. I know, seems too simple, but it’s the honest to goodness truth, and every day I realize more and more that this is true.
The single biggest difference between those people who achieve their dreams and live interesting fulfilling lives is NOT that they are smarter, more talented, or better looking than you. It’s not even that they planned better and wrote their goals out on paper (I’m certain not all of them did!)
The secret is that they take ACTION. These people take action, and don’t just talk about it.
For example: you know those abstract paintings that you sometimes see that are just, like… a couple of badly drawn streaks of paint on a canvas? The type of thing that looks like a two year old could have done it?
I remember when I used to come across those for sale hanging on walls in cafes or restaurants or galleries – I would think scornfully “Who would buy that? I could easily do that in two seconds, and probably come up with something ten times better in that time”.
But then I realized something:
It doesn’t matter two dogs balls whether or not I could make a better painting than that. That person actually MADE that painting. He got out his paintbrushes, he painted that picture, he actually took his art to this cafe, asked if he could hang it on the wall, and hey – maybe someone will even pay him money for it. Maybe not, but maybe they will – I don’t know.
But I do know one thing for sure – no one is paying me for the paintings in my head that I “could have done better”.
And that is the big difference between that artist and most people. Most people would be too afraid or think it too much effort to actually take action, paint a picture, and send it out to the world where it has the potential to be criticized. Instead it’s easier and a heck of a lot less scary to sit around and criticize the things that other people have made.
This is why most people are not living their dreams. It’s because they give into the fear and do not take any action.
Something that I have come to learn is that no one on this planet really knows what they are doing. In life, in business, in relationships, in everything.
No one knows what they are doing. They’re all just winging it.
Well, maybe some of them know a fair bit now, but they certainly didn’t when they were just starting out. They didn’t have everything figured out. And they still don’t have everything figured out. If they have most things figured out, it’s because they took action and worked hard to know as much as they know now.
All they did in the beginning though was see the first actionable step that was in front of their face, and they took it. Once they took that step, the next step became clear. And they took that one. And they just kept going.
It’s like being in a fog, and as you move ahead a couple of steps, suddenly you can see more than you could before. The more steps you take, the more clear everything becomes.
And here’s the big thing… the first step, and the second step, and all the steps… none of them have to be perfect. We get so paralyzed by having to have everything be perfect before we can reveal ourselves or our creations, or move ahead with our project or goal.
But perfection is an illusion. Nothing is perfect, and if you wait for perfection, nothing will ever happen.
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Stay tuned for when the full “Find Your Passion & Live Your Dreams” is released! In it, I will help you overcome the fears that are preventing you from taking action on your dreams (and help you find out what your passions are if you don’t know yet!)
The process described in the ebook is what has allowed me to live an amazing life that is rich and fulfilling, with a great sense of personal accomplishment. It’s the process that I have used to achieve my major life goals: traveling overseas, healing my severe acne, and building my successful blogging business (which is a dream come true – it is an amazing feeling, being excited to “go” to work each day because I get to help people improve their lives while creating abundance for myself)
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Win A Free Copy of Find Your Passion & Live Your Dreams
Do you want to get your hands on my new ebook before anyone else? I am doing a pre-launch giveaway of Find Your Passion & Live Your Dreams. Three free copies will be given away.
If you’d like to win one, just fill out this little widget thingy here. The more of the options you do, the more entries you get (for a max of 4).
Thank you to everyone who entered the giveaway. And congratulations to Dorothy, Peter, and Anouk, who won the free copies!
Update: Find Your Passion & Live Your Dreams is now available for everyone! Get your copy now! 😀



61 Responses
I could have written this…
…LOL not true at all, I HAD to say it. Very inspiring. Thank you so much.
LOL! 😀 hahah.. that made me laugh.
You made me LOL! 😀
Fitness, fun, stress free, outside, energetic!
Totally would love to read this 🙂
the life of my dreams would include fulfilling all of my life goals, helping others along the way, and traveling across the globe to experience the amazing and diverse cultures that different countries have to offer and truly soaking in the realness of my existence! All while being positive and happy to the best of my abilities 🙂
I think I am getting there – spent much of my early adult life fixing myself. You just have to be intentional and life sometimes gets in the way of happiness – can’t let it!
This looks great. The life of my dreams would begin by getting rid of procrastination once and for all! Then I’d want to get more done around the house, accomplish more in my career, travel, and most importantly, spend more time in prayer.
This is a great skill to learn *before* kids!! I never did and still struggling with the “action” part!
I am about to turn forty-eleven and become an empty nester, so it is time to re=think myself and decide what my new dreams and goals are for the second half of my life!
In the life of my dreams, I am a confident, nonjudgmental, patient, loving woman who embraces aging, compromise, relationships, and imperfection and who accepts death as a reminder to be present.
What a fabulous book idea! Thanks for creating even more info for us! 🙂
Probably because I’ve got so many stressers in my life right now, the life of my dreams is very much stress free and calming. With lots of time spent outdoors doing things that energize my body.
Living the life I would like to live has to do with peace of mind, readiness and willingness to be in the moment with an outlook of curiosity for what is happening, and living with a sense of confidence in my resilience (no matter how things go, I will be able to deal with it). And living the life I would like also looks like taking a lot of action to choose the activities that are going to build me up even if it takes a little extra focus and awareness (it’s the difference between cultivating messy living habits like leaving your dishes, and keeping up on your environment as an extension of self care). Thanks for the opportunity to actively engage the topic! That is awesome! Tracy, you’re golden.
I would just looove to get my thesis done. It is such a pain in the ass at the moment. I am currenty stuck and I just lack energy to get along with it. I could very much need some motivation … 😉
Ops I did not answer the question: the life of my dreams.
The life of my dreams involves basic independence, health, an alive mind and an alive ability to love, so that I am in the position to inspire and help others and so that I make things happen. And especially: in my dreams, time is my friend.
Life of my dreams, opening up my own shelter for abused, neglected dogs/animals. Throwing monthly awesome events that raise awareness and funds that will get the animals adopted!
After years of sickness and unhappiness, the life of my dreams is to simply be free to enjoy my life without the burden of physical and emotional pain. When I can finally shed these things, I trust that the details in the rest of my life will always work themselves out.
This book! It sounds wonderful!! 🙂
I’m afraid I have never taken much action at all >_<
Life of my dreams: Saving up my money to meet the person I really like, Make many good friends, Financial Independence…
Taking Action really is great advice!! Thank you 🙂
I have the same dream as meaghan! But id like to share it in photography and art, but im too afraid of not having the money to cover expenses, being stuck overseas with no help, not understanding languages, and not being able to take my cat. Im super afraid of losing my cat or transport overseas wrecking and my cat drowning. I’d never be able to live with myself.
I think that this is an amazing message to be giving to people. So many of us don’t take action, and that’s what success is all about: hard work and taking action. You are like my idol Tracy.
Hey this looks great! I’m excited for it to come out. 🙂
I often get so worked up over not being able to do something perfectly that I’ll just avoid doing it in the first place. But in the end I know that will only lead to regret, so I really want to figure out just what my goals are and a way to reach my dreams (even if it’s not perfect or easy). So I guess that would be my dream life….following my heart, but even if I don’t do everything perfectly and have to deal with the complications of life, I would know I at least tried my best.
By the way, your site and book have been of much help to me. 🙂 I have been doing the Caveman for 18 days and my skin seems to like it. I was using a mild castile soap before, so I think that’s why the transition wasn’t too bad for me. It helped me because washing my face always left my face red and dry and irritated my acne. My skin heals so much faster now, and my acne seems to be getting better (that might be because I’m implementing a lot of the diet tips from your book too). Oh and I ordered fermented cod liver oil and I’m excited to try it!! 🙂
Thanks Tracy!! I love your site.
In the life of my dreams, I have the strength and courage to actualize my inspirations. I overcome my shyness and insecurity, I have adventures everyday, and I don’t worry about inconsequential things.
I want to be a farmer, and an activist. I want to raise goats and cows on pasture, and sell the milk and meat. This way, I will not only be fulfilling my dream, but also helping the environment and giving others access to clean, sustainable food.
Thank you! This has been good stuff to roll around in my head…I came back to read it again. 🙂 Years back I was in a massive depression (i have manic depression), seemed to last forever – until I realized I had to take action, people can support you but noone can do it for you. At the very worst I would do at least one thing every day to improve my life. That got me through college, raising kids and taking care of myself. You are spot on!
This has come at a perfect time for me. I’m “ready” to pursue my dream career and feel very free knowing that nobody is more superior that one another. Nobody is god; we were all beginners at one point. I think in the monopoly of the corporate world, a lot of attention, too much attention, if focused on the experience one has in a necessary field which is why so many people refrain from changing careers.
Very excited about this eBook and very pleased that I know somebody else who believe in similar values.
Hi Tracey!!! 😀 i love your website and your awesome youtube videos soo much!! thank you for every single piece of advice you give us. i am very grateful for your knowledge that you share. BTW im looking forward to winning the giveaway 😀 pls let it be me 😀
In the life of my dreams: I have vibrant health and I am a world traveler, I support myself through an online business (very similar to what you do!), and I am happy to live in the moment and enjoy the simple things in life like growing an organic garden and surrounding myself with people who enjoy similar things.
Tracey, I just wanted to let you know that you are such an inspirational person to me! I really like your personality and your lifestyle. I think we could be friends 🙂 I have just began a very scary, but liberating, and exciting transitional period in my life, and this e-book is right up my alley right now.
I am trying to take the USMLE exam but I keep putting it off and I don’t know why. I was supposed to take it last year but I keep finding excuses not to take it. Hope your book motivates me to take that exam.
great idea, that’s so true
The life of my dreams would involve being a world traveler. If I could make money off of being a traveler, that would be THE dream. 🙂
Sounds like another wonderful book!! Can’t wait to read it! =)
I want a copy! So I entered the widget ‘thingy’ above 😉
Ive been ‘self-rehabilitating’ for a few years now, i am mentally/emotionally preparing myself for heading a rough road to get to my dream life. And that, is the biggest excuse i have from taking action. Im only 25 and yet im lost and confused, with no actual cause in life and thinking my thoughts and dreams are better painted in my head to act on it in real life.
Just a year older then you and I know what you mean. It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who feels this way. I just posted a comment on this blog and all it takes is action and baby steps! 🙂
I’m so excited about your new book! I’ve been procrastinating on little things now’s the time to “take action” and do them! You’re such an inspiration. I can’t wait for tomorrow and start out with a long walk to clear my thoughts and get thing in my life in order. Baby steps!
Definitely good reading.
I would like to stay happily married, start a family and do a tour abroad with my band! see the world and feel free 🙂
In response to the what would the life of your dreams question. i would say to just be happy, to be able to be out and nature and garden and help people find health.
My dream is to travel the world, become completely independent, and be FREE. I want to learn to let go of people who bring me down and just don’t care about how people see me and what they think. I think it’s one of the most important keys in life to BE YOURSELF (sounds a bit cliché, eh?) but it’s true. If yo’re constantly repressing feelings and trying to control your thoughts and actions, sooner or later it’s going to come out somehow. Trust me. In my case it’s through skin problems (eczema & acne) and everyday’s an internal struggle… But I’m working on it! Try it and see!
Financially free and not trapped!
The life of my dreams? Right now, so many things in my life have changed so dramatically lately that I don’t have any idea what the life of my dreams would look like. But what you wrote resonated with me…if I am not afraid to take the first step (and I think that applies to anything I want to do) I will find myself on the right path.
Hey Tracy, I’m not the kind of person who likes to write a lot on blogs but then I said… what the heck!? The worst thing that could happen is that nobody reads my comment and I don’t win the give away! But what about if Tracy reads my comment and I win the giveaway of her new book? That would be pretty awesome!!!! I wouldn’t know if I didn’t take the time to write this comment. It’s a lot more what I can win that what I can lose and life itself is like that. Usually every single thing we can do has a lot more benefits than drawbacks. Taking action is so important but I’m so afraid sometimes…. I’m so looking forward to get a hold of your book!
Very inspiring! I definitely want to check this out =)
Just found your website recently and already have found a lot of helpful information! I’m excited about this new direction you are taking and the books sounds great!! I just started a new adventure and feel now more than ever my dreams are POSSIBLE and its a great feeling!!
The life of my dreams is living in a world where we wouldn’t constantly make our lifes harder than they need to be. Where we wouldn’t take life too seriously and enjoy it more. Afterall, it’s all just a ride:)
It is just a ride 😉
The life of my dreams would be one in which I am comfortable in my own skin and am unafraid to take risks and make mistakes in order to get what I desire in life.
My dream life is simply me learning to let go of my irrational fears and insecurities that get in the way of me living my life for me, NOT for anyone else. We are here for such a short time and in the end our life was our own, not anyone else’s. Why live your life for someone else?
My dream is to stop wasting my time on things that don’t make me happy just because I feel like I have to
I need this so badly right now. I’m not happy with my career right now. I’ve talked about looking for other jobs for forever, but I’ve never done anything about it. I need start somewhere, like updating my resume.
great post!
Tracy, the path to understanding why my skin breaks out, and to be easy on myself when it does flare up from time to time now, has brought me to a state of such self-awareness, self-respect, and self-care! Your website has helped so much since it started, and I thank you for that.
Similarly, I’ve become fascinated along the way with how people can live their best lives and shift their limiting beliefs. I’m sure this book will help others, and I’m excited to read it!
Live to see what you have to say
hi Tracy, I’d love to read your upcoming book. Your way of thinking and talking is good. You help others and inspire them to take some action.
wow! sis tracy!! :DDD i really want to have your new ebook! its a big help for me! for my future! :DDD i wish i could be 1 of the winners..!!!
Hey Tracy! I’m very excited about this new book : ) I haven’t been a part of this community for long, but I really believe in the things that you know and I’m so grateful that you’ve created this outlet to share your knowledge and help others. You are inspirational and sensational!
Guilty of thinking about doing things and not doing them. A few examples would be exercising everyday, having smoothies everyday, and I procrastinate all the time.
I soooo need this, im in the middle of this dilemma now
Cant wait to read it 🙂
I am fortunately managing going to gym and keeping a healthy diet… but are still many steps to go.
I am so much into visual arts and my biggest dream is to become a painter – traveling around the world to collect inspiration and just do art! Cooperate with other inspiring ppl … what sucks is, of course, the budget – you need “a commercial” job to earn for living, but then there is just little time left for your passion :/
Ooooo this sounds so awesome. Can’t wait 😀
This looks so inspiring and I can’t wait to read it. Part of what acne does is make us feel trapped – a slave to habits, products or whatever – but there are so many other fears and hangups that do the same thing. I always find myself thinking about when I go back overseas…haven’t been in three years…and realizing all the fears that come with it. Risking relationships and friendships. Not knowing anyone. Having to re-learn a language. And then one of my biggest dreams gets a whole lot scarier.
I just gotta DO IT. And I’m gonna. And I’m also going to read this because you’re an inspiration and an example. I mean, right now aren’t you earning a living off this blog and these ebooks? From an acne advice site…one I (and probably others) would have been too afraid to start. Go figure lol. Love it.
Tracy, I cannot tell you how exited and happy I am for this ebook!!! I have been watching your videos more then a year now and it has helped me in soooo many ways!!!!! To be honest, I don’t have acne a problem and kinda skipped the your videos on acne cure, however, I find your motivational lectures on how to live a quality life internally and physically so inspiring!!! This book is something I’ve always anticipated about!!! Thank you so much Tracy! I cannot wait:))))
Nice!! I really like hearing that even non-acne prone people find lots of value in what I say! 😀 Glad you’re looking forward to the book Melissa!